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Erika Kirk’s facial expressions became a talking point during the State of the Union: “You’d have no idea she was even his wife”

"I know people who have mourned their pets more than she did her husband."

At the State of the Union address on Tuesday, President Donald Trump named Erika Kirk, Charlie Kirk's widow, as an honoree. When the camera cut to her, viewers couldn't help but notice that her expression seemed out of place. Many on social media claimed that she was faking her sorrow.

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Screenshot of Erika Kirk next to a family who lost someone around the same time as Charlie Kirk was assassinated. There are boxes around the two women, Erika smiling and text reads, "Fake af Grief" and the other woman, looking downcast, saying, "Real grief."
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What happened at the State of the Union

Erika Kirk attended the address on Tuesday, Feb 24, to hear Trump speak in person. The president acknowledged her during a section honoring Americans affected by political violence. Trump told the audience, "So last year, Charlie was violently murdered by an assassin and martyred for his beliefs. His wonderful wife Erika is with us tonight."

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Then he asked Erika to stand as applause filled the chamber. As the applause continued, she appeared to be overwhelmed, dabbing her eyes and looking up at the ceiling and then down again. Trump addressed her directly, saying, "You’ve been through a lot," before continuing with his speech.

Reactions to Erika Kirk at the State of the Union

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On social media, people dissected Erika’s expressions almost immediately. Many claimed her reaction looked forced or exaggerated, and called her a "bad actress."

GIF of a woman in a poofy red wig dramatically saying, "I'm acting!"
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One person on X, @KayeMcCartney, compared her to others nearby. They wrote, "The couple next to Erika lost their daughter a week before Kirk’s death, and they show real emotion and their tears are real. They actually look bereaved. Erika, not so much."

they’re calling her the happiest woman alive
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"So, so, so fake, it’s like looking at the worst actress that I’ve seen," @Maribel58281998 posted. "Just looking at her makes me uncomfortable. I mean… I can’t."

Others framed Erika as a spectacle rather than a true mourner. @MattWallace888 wrote that footage of Erika at the State of the Union was "going viral," noting viewers fixated on one detail. Then jokes began to circulate.

@Partisan_12 mocked the scene with a faux error message, writing, "Erika Kirk’s operating system messages: RUNTIME EXCEPTION. Error 404. Fatal system error. Contact your manufacturer."

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Similarly, @Tomdickanarry commented, "Trying to squeeze out a tear. Didn’t work."

@HasanHerald noted, "I’m convinced [Erika] Kirk doesn’t know what part of the eyes tears come from. Also mouthing 'I miss you' while we all know she took down their wedding photo is crazy."

"Even five days after it happened, you’d have no idea she was even his wife. She’s never really looked sad except two or three times- and even then it was clear she’s putting on a show," @eternallyRaq claimed. "The only person who truly cared about Charlie Kirk is Candace Owens."

"I know people who have mourned their pets more than she did her husband," shared @PaddyRy65586397.

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