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‘She’s a real one for stepping in’: High school coach grabs player’s ponytail—and her teammate wasn’t about to let it slide

‘If this is what he is doing in front of everybody, what has he done behind closed doors?’

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LefT: screenshot from X user @kirawontmiss of a coach pulling a young basketball players hair; Right: Screenshot of the player's teammate pointing at the coach.

A high school basketball coach’s dismissal for pulling a player’s hair has sparked widespread praise for a teammate’s protective intervention.

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During the Class D New York State championship game on March 21, Northville High School’s girls basketball team faced LaFargeville Central School District. After Northville’s 43-37 loss, an incident unfolded that has since garnered national attention. Coach Jim Zullo, 81, was caught on national television pulling the ponytail of a senior player. Hailey Monroe was visibly upset on the sidelines after fouling out earlier in the game.

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As Zullo came up behind Monroe and yanked on her ponytail, teammate Ahmya Tompkins intervened. She stepped between them to protect Monroe and de-escalate the situation. 

The video of this incident quickly went viral, leading to Zullo’s termination by the Northville Central School District. The school district published a statement about the incident. They write they are “deeply disturbed by” Coach Zullo’s conduct and that “this behavior is completely unacceptable.”

“The District is committed to ensuring that this type of behavior has no place within our programs, and we will continue to uphold the values of respect and integrity that our athletes, families and community expect and deserve. This individual will no longer be coaching for the Northville Central School District.”

“We assure the public that this matter is being taken extremely seriously, and the District is actively addressing it. The District will be following up with the affected players and their families to provide support and outline the actions we are taking in response to this incident.”

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Zullo, who had a storied career including a 2006 induction into the state Basketball Hall of Fame, expressed remorse, stating, “I deeply regret my behavior… As a coach, under no circumstance is it acceptable to put my hands on a player, and I am truly sorry.” 

Teammate lauded for protecting her friend

While the coach’s actions drew widespread condemnation, much of the social media discourse has focused on Tompkins’ intervention. Folks on social media have lauded her bravery and quick action. One person on X, formerly known as Twitter, noted, “Her teammate was awesome trying to protect her!”

Reaction to the coach fired for pulling girl's hair, text reads, 'I appreciate her teammate standing up for her… That’s what a real teammate would do in that moment… She showed courage'
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Another commented, “This. Her teammate is all that is right with that generation. I was not one to challenge authority and I always respected my coaches, even when they screamed at us, nor do I raise my own daughter to challenge. But when an adult puts their hands on you or a friend, challenge away.”

Reaction to the coach fired for pulling girl's hair, text reads, 'Unacceptable behavior from the coach! Kudos to the friend for standing up for her teammate and showing what it means to be a good friend! (clap emoji)'
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Another person wrote, “She was raised right. Very impressive for a high schooler to stand up to an adult like that.”

Reaction to the coach fired for pulling girl's hair, text reads, 'Black women stick up for everybody!! (salute and triumph emojis)'
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Reaction to the coach fired for pulling girl's hair, text reads, 'I absolutely love how her team mate defended her.'
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“A coach was fired after pulling a girl’s ponytail following their state title loss. Her friend a real one for stepping in,” said @kirawontmiss, who shared a video of the incident on X.

Reaction to the coach fired for pulling girl's hair, text reads, 'He should also be sued for assault. Bow to that team mate who stepped in (bow emoji)'
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Reaction to the coach fired for pulling girl's hair, text reads, 'Standing up for your friend when adults cross the line shows true courage.'
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Reaction to the coach fired for pulling girl's hair, text reads, 'Saddest part of this is other than the girl (#24) who came to her defense you can tell by the girl who's hair was pulled as well as the rest of the girls 'not surprised' reaction that this coach has done this before - either verbally or physically abusing these girls. Pathetic!'
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Reaction to the coach fired for pulling girl's hair, text reads, 'Context is the season is over they lost state she is a senior. There is no justification for the Coaches actions,which has everything to do with anger not being tough. I loved how her teammate stepped in.'
@DoTheRightWing/X

This incident has ignited discussions about the importance of safeguarding student-athletes. Experts emphasize that while coaching can be intense, physical confrontations are never acceptable. The swift response from both the district and the community underscores a collective commitment to upholding these standards.

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